Life of Stella
pearlsark:
“ One-of-a-kind piece:
A Very special Art Nouveau tiara, circa 1900, with textured gold branches, carved horn leaves and apple blossoms, collet-set diamond pistils, baroque pearl buds, and suspending two detachable clusters of flowers and...

pearlsark:

One-of-a-kind piece:

A Very special Art Nouveau tiara, circa 1900, with textured gold branches, carved horn leaves and apple blossoms, collet-set diamond pistils, baroque pearl buds, and suspending two detachable clusters of flowers and leaves.
Piece by Paul Liénard, Paris | Vogue | Christie’s

I love your blog so much but at the same time it discourages me from becoming a stripper which I've wanted to be for the longest time now aha. I've got tough skin certainly but I'm still scared the other girls would hate me which is a little nerve wracking!
Anonymous

sassystripperfox:

While working at the club, do not be intimidated. THEY CAN SMELL THE FEAR. jk haha

No but really, don’t be intimidated. Some girls don’t mind helping out new girls. I don’t always like to offer my assistance, but I’ve definitely offered it to a couple girls in the past before… mainly because I could tell they were genuinely nice girls. 

Clubs have been cracking down on employee misconduct, they realize hostile environments are counter-productive. Don’t go in trying to make friends, friends will come eventually. Friends can slow you down in making money, they can also come with insider drama … when you’re new, the less you know about the gossip the better off you are, working independently can keep you focused. DO YOU! You’re there for you first anyways right? I hope so.

It doesn’t hurt to make a friend or two. The nicer girls will usually give you a hint on how to work the club. IF a girl goes about giving you advice in a shitty way, pretend as if you didn’t notice her shitty-ness and as if she meant well by it. lol Politely thank her and keep it pushing … I have had girls give me advice and it have a condescending tone and underlying motive beneath it, [to shake my confidence] and because I didn’t react like a bitch, it later benefited me. After all, we are all ladies, and ladies play nice. haha I almost didn’t want to keep that last sentence there because it’s hard to take seriously. ANYWAYS, Some girls will compliment you on your look or style of dance, or it could be as simple as, “hey we have similar styles or body types do you want to go on stage together?” Those are the ones you’ll usually bond with and become friendly with in time. I usually invite a girl to the table I’m working at where I’m out numbered by the guys. I introduce myself to the girl, ask her for her name and introduce her to the table, make them aware that it’s my first week and then direct the focus back onto the men. Share your work by inviting girls in on the table/guests you are entertaining. It’s a good ice breaker. Don’t be discouraged. Dancing can either be a crutch, a stepping stone, liberating or a burden. It’s usually dependent on your attitude and perspective… A smile goes a long way.  
” Be careful whose advice you buy, but, be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it’s worth.” - Wear Sunscreen [my favorite quote on advice]

arrogant-elegant:
“Greek Goddess Editorial 5/7
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Greek Goddess Editorial 5/7

arielroots:
“ flower face
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arielroots:

flower face

wonder-drug:
“sulkingsoul:
“freaks-andd-geeks:
“ found this in nyc

wonder-drug:

sulkingsoul:

freaks-andd-geeks:

found this in nyc<3

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Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. There’s nothing enlightening about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
Marianne Williamson (via cosmofilius)